Feeling Down During the Holiday Season? You’re Not Alone

The holiday season can be a time of joy and celebration, when families gather for quality time and cherished traditions. However, for some, this time of year can also trigger feelings of loneliness, grief, guilt, and sadness.
When certain expectations for the holidays are not met, some may be confronted with feelings of loss, strains on their relationships, or financial stress. And some might simply feel “holiday blues” when the season is over.
Experiencing some of these feelings is to be expected. In fact, it’s probably more common than you think. But how can you identify the differences between “holiday blues,” seasonal affective disorder, and clinical depression?
In this Q&A, Grant Mitchell, Site MD, Chair of Psychiatry at the Mount Sinai-Behavioral Health Center, explains what may be triggering your concerns, when you may need to seek professional advice, and what unique services Mount Sinai offers.
What are some common triggers for “holiday blues” or anxiety?
There are many reasons why you might experience the “holiday blues” or anxiety. People experience stress from the financial strain of holiday spending, or the travel plans and busy social schedules often associated with this time of year. Anxiety can be triggered by a heightened awareness of social isolation or increased expectations of feeling joy and togetherness. In addition to these triggers, the holidays can also resurface sad feelings associated with family conflicts or the loss of a loved one. All of these triggers can be more likely to happen during the holiday season, so it is important to identify them early.
How can people tell the difference between “holiday blues” and clinical depression?
While some symptoms of “holiday blues” may be like clinical depression, they usually do not have a major impact on daily functioning and are tied to specific situations. Symptoms of clinical depression are generally more severe, persistent, and usually interfere with your ability to maintain your usual routines.
Signs of clinical depression include:
- Lasting sadness or emptiness
- Loss of interest in things previously enjoyed
- Changes in sleep or appetite
- Feelings of hopelessness or worthlessness
- Difficulty concentrating
- Thoughts of self-harm

Grant Mitchell, MD, at the Mount Sinai-Behavioral Health Center
What is seasonal affective disorder, and how does it differ from the “holiday blues”?
While the “holiday blues” and seasonal affective disorder can coexist, SAD is a specific type of clinical depression linked to the reduction in daylight that typically begins in the fall and continues through the winter. The reduction in sunlight can disrupt your body’s normal rhythms, leading to fatigue, sadness, poor sleep, and loss of interest in activities. When combined with holiday stressors, SAD can intensify the feelings of sadness and withdrawal.
When should you consider seeking professional help for their holiday sadness?
Seek professional help if changes in sleep or appetite, feelings of sadness, anxiety, or hopelessness persist beyond the holidays and are severe enough to disrupt your daily life or include thoughts of self-harm. Early intervention and support from a mental health professional can prevent symptoms from worsening.
How can friends and family support someone feeling down during the holidays?
If you think a friend or family member is experiencing sadness during the holidays, you can provide helpful support. Checking in, with a simple phone call or text, and validating the feelings they are having, can make a big difference. Including loved ones in plans or respecting their need for space is a great way to show that you are listening and understanding their needs. If your friend or family member seems to have severe distress, or the feelings persist after the holidays are over, encourage them to seek professional help.
What can I do if I am feeling down during the holidays?
Feeling sad or lonely during the holidays is more common than people think. It doesn’t mean something is “wrong” with you, but it means it’s important to take extra steps to ensure you’re taking care of your mental health. Try these five steps :
- Prioritize your self-care and things that bring you joy.
- Ensure you are getting enough rest and exercise.
- Set small goals you can achieve each day, especially when the world around you slows down for the holidays.
- Surround yourself with people who listen and provide comfort.
- Keep in mind that you are not alone.
How can Mount Sinai help?
Mount Sinai offers a full range of inpatient and outpatient services throughout New York City for those experiencing symptoms related to sadness, anxiety, or substance use disorder. Behavioral Health Express Care, located at the Mount Sinai-Behavioral Health Center, is a walk-in service providing evaluations, brief counseling, and medication (if needed) for adults experiencing a mental health crisis or needing acute substance use treatment. No appointment is needed, and the service is open Monday-Thursday 8 am to 6:30 pm and Friday and Saturday from 8 am to 2:30 pm.



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